There's a remedy for that! Eugenie Rowson

When I asked my youngest son of nine what he feels before a school cycle test, he moved his hand in a circular motion over his tummy and he said that “it feels like things are flying around”!  I thought this description was perfect for what we used to call “the butterflies”, which is a nice name for something quite nasty! The physical symptoms of stress are caused by the hormone adrenaline which prepares the body for the flight and fight reaction, a certain amount of which is beneficial and assists us in “winning the race”.

However, it may also bring on negative feelings, emotions and even physical symptoms which may include anxiety, apprehension or nervous dread, brain fog, weak memory, fear, anger or irritability, over-active mind, sweating, the urgent need to urinate, sleeplessness and even exhaustion. 

The digestive system is the seat of emotions synonymous with exam nerves such as issues relating to fear, anxiety, self-esteem, decision-making, personal power, fear of failure, confidence and self-respect, and this may be apparent before any test of one’s ability, causing excess or loss of appetite, abdominal pain with cramps and spasms; even diarrhoea. Emotions may even reach the level of panic where there may be a racing heart rate, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, dizziness or feeling faint.
 

This all sounds a little overwhelming, but there is much we can do to overcome and even prevent these symptoms during times of stress.  All my children enjoy the benefits of numerous different homeopathic remedies before and during tests and examinations, which help them to feel relaxed, capable, confident and clear thinking.  Unfortunately there is no homeopathic remedy that can “pour the information into the mind” – this requires good old-fashioned study and revision! Thereafter, let the following homeopathic remedies do the work for you:

Argentum Nitricum (200C) –  (headless chicken type of behaviour) for a highly emotional state where fears are running high; anticipatory fears or apprehension; fear of forgetting your pens or calculator; fear of forgetting everything you have learnt; fear that you will not get to the examination location on time and feel overwhelmed with panic. You feel that time is running out and you must do everything in a great hurry. 

Gelsemium (200C) – (ostrich type of behaviour) especially helpful for a anticipatory fears before exams or interviews when you feel emotionally numb, can’t get yourself motivated to study or you feel inappropriately unconcerned about studying or the exams coming up and respond by burying your head in the sand like and ostrich!  Perhaps if you ignore it, it will all go away?!  Useful where fear is accompanied by trembling, muscular weakness, diarrhoea and the urgent need to urinate from emotional excitement or nervousness.   
 

Kali Phos (200C) – an essential brain, nerve, heart and lung nutrient and one of the greatest nerve remedies. For mental and/or physical exhaustion with anxiety brought on by excitement, overwork or worry. Improves symptoms such as anxiety, melancholy, panic, nervous tension, heart palpitations; shortness of breath, anxiety, insomnia, brain fog, mental & physical exhaustion, possibly accompanied by poor memory, irritability and dizziness. A great remedy for students.

Lycopodium (200C) – Improves self-confidence and courage. Helps with apprehension about forthcoming events. Constant fear of breaking down under stress. Little things annoy; extremely sensitive. Melancholic.  Poor memory and failing brain power. Also helpful in cases of confused thoughts, forgetfulness, getting words muddled up and mistakes in writing. Improves self-confidence and reduces the fear of breaking down under stress.  I like to alternate this remedy with Silica.
 

Silica (200C) – suits the nervous and excitable type who is sensitive to all influences; is faint-hearted, anxious and full of apprehension – too timid to undertake things. The person is lethargic and wants to sit or lie down all the time. Gives a sense of courage; improves confidence and mental clarity. Helpful where there is a lack of oomph or grit!

Mag Phos (200C) – helpful if you feel tired, lethargic and can’t think clearly.

 

The Bach Flower Remedies are also very effective in correcting lots of negative human emotions. Most people only know about Rescue Remedy, which is a combination of 5 of the 38 Bach Flower Remedies for emotional stress during times of emergency. There are several other flower remedies that may be more appropriate to the individual’s emotions and I have selected a few of my favourites for soothing frayed nerves:

Clematis – Day-dreamer. Inattentive and indifferent. Pre-occupied with thoughts rather than actions. Reflects constantly on fantasies and finds it hard to come down to earth. Escapes reality. Apathetic. Mediumistic. Heavy sleeper.

Elm – Occasional feelings of inadequacy. Exhaustion from over-striving for perfection. Excessive ambition and enthusiasm. Responsibility is proving too weighty and inadequacy is creeping in.